I mean, you aren’t wrong. I generally try to unless it’s really obvious. Like if I think the person and i are on the same page. I’m not out here to hurt anybody. But that’s also why I think it’s important to learn that lesson so you don’t get hurt. Like, teach your kids to have a reasonable self confidence so they aren’t fucking so self centered that they’re overly sensitive. Dont expect the world to bend to you, specifically, and have a modicum of some self emotional reliance.

Both can be right at the same time.