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  • HasturInYellow@lemmy.world
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    4 days ago

    As someone in a similar situation, there are differences in the racism are stark.

    They treat you differently but far more often than not, it is just curiosity or looking for entertainment from a zoo animal. They are not hostile or aggressive.

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      The “zoo animal” thing seems about right. Sometimes they look at you like they think you’re about to start flinging shit around. Sometimes they’re curious about how the zoo animal is going to do something simple like handle chopsticks. Often they don’t make eye contact or keep their space because they don’t want to have to interact with the zoo animal.

      OTOH, part of their being polite is that if the gaijin actually asks them for help, they’re obligated to try to help.

      Overall, I liked it. As an introvert, I don’t like countries where people approach the foreigner and try to practice their English on them. There are also too many countries where you’re frequently approached by someone who wants to scam you, or wants you to give them money.

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      4 days ago

      They are not hostile or aggressive.

      … until you try to open a bank account with them ad a foreigner. Tourists are fine and tolerated but become an expat and you’ll have a much steeper time.

      • gh0stcassette@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        3 days ago

        Why do white immigrants often call themselves expats? I’ve never heard anyone who wasn’t a well-off immigrant white guy self-describe that way.

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          I’m not sure of why others wouldn’t:

          expat /ĕks′pāt′/

          noun

          1. An expatriate; a person who lives outside his or her own country.
          2. A person who is voluntarily absent from home or country.