wowwoweowza@lemmy.world to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 5 days agoWhat is one of those: oh my god, I wish someone had explained THIS system to me when I was younger moments that really sticks out to you from your experience?message-squaremessage-square42fedilinkarrow-up147arrow-down11
arrow-up146arrow-down1message-squareWhat is one of those: oh my god, I wish someone had explained THIS system to me when I was younger moments that really sticks out to you from your experience?wowwoweowza@lemmy.world to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 5 days agomessage-square42fedilink
minus-squareTrippinMallard@lemmy.mllinkfedilinkarrow-up18·edit-24 days agoMost of the time people want connection / to be heard, more than solutions to their problems.
minus-squarekatkit@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·1 day agoSomeone explained this to me as: It’s not that people don’t want solutions, talking about their problems IS the solution. In fact “talking about it” is so effective that some people successfully earn their living with it.
minus-squareIronBird@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up12·4 days agowell they shouldnt have such easily solvable problems then
Most of the time people want connection / to be heard, more than solutions to their problems.
Someone explained this to me as:
It’s not that people don’t want solutions, talking about their problems IS the solution. In fact “talking about it” is so effective that some people successfully earn their living with it.
well they shouldnt have such easily solvable problems then
lol how dare they
Love this lmao