• Routhinator@startrek.website
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    1 day ago

    When do I move in?

    Seriously though, sex before marriage is just what sane people do. Do you buy a car before you test drive it?

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      17 hours ago

      Lots of people have boundaries about sex before marriage for moral reasons. That doesn’t make them insane.

      If they try to force you into doing the same, that makes them assholes.

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      1 day ago

      Do you buy a car before you test drive it?

      Yes, if you have heard from other people that this car is a pleasure to drive ;)

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            23 hours ago

            Can’t say I agree. Most people don’t seem to critically evaluate their purchases, especially expensive ones. I’ve gotten tons of bad advice from people that just bought into the hype on some shiny thing they saw a commercial for or a influencer talking about. People are fools. I try not to buy anything I haven’t laid hands on myself.

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      1 day ago

      People are these days through things like carvana “we’ll deliver the car you pick online straight to you front door” (grabs the one in the back that won’t sell because of the loud AC and it rides a bit wonky, hoping your need of a car out weighs the hassle of sending it back)