20, trying to figure life out . doing trading, learning dispatching, studying too, its a lot at once. feel like im always in grind mode and forgot how to just enjoy stuff. currently im financially dependent on my parents…
had some bad losses in trading lately, took a short break and now trying to actually fix my risk management before going back in
if you’re older and already been through your 20s, what do you wish someone told you back then? like what actually mattered vs what you thought mattered at the time
also anyone here into manifestation/law of attraction, does it actually work for you? not asking to like wish for money lol, more curious how you actually get into a good headspace and stay there day to day
any advice helps, thanks for reading
[like attracting money , travel etc ]
Manifestation doesn’t work. Planning and then taking consistent steps towards your goals does however
In your 20s the stock market is for leaving a bunch of money in in the hopes you don’t have to see it for a long time.
Fun is important, go socialize and hang out with peers. I’ll keep you sane and it’s how you wind up married if that’s your thing.
And the headspace you want is discipline. It’s “I need to do this so I can have what matters to me” not some magical thinking of "if I think of myself as rich money will flow to me. The only way that works is by bluffing your way into places money is and making people think you belong.
Most importantly though you’re at an important age to listen to one of my favorite quotes from Iroh in Avatar “It’s time for you to look inward, and start asking yourself the big questions. Who are you? And what do you want?”