• velma@sh.itjust.works
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      Now I’m pushing back on your assertion that abuse is justified when there’s cheating. You leave the relationship, you don’t get permission to abuse your spouse.

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          He could’ve recorded plenty after the sex happened and still have proof without violating sexual consent.

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            Your honour, my client is there talking to a friend of hers. It’s *current year* are women not allowed to have male friends?

            yeah, sure.

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              Your fantasies about murdering women are going to catch up to you.

              Hopefully before you actually harm someone.

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                what fantasies? How are you a feminist(?) and don’t understand that some places are putting laws about “femicide” to prevent that kind of murder?

                https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Femicide

                If men have to resort to vigilantism in these situations, it leads to femicide. If I state that, how does that make me have fantasies about murdering women?

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                  Men are capable of controlling themselves. Presenting this dichotomy that men have only two options - murder their wife or take her to court - is appalling.