I typically go with single player games. Niche stuff casuals rarely play. It’s not a flex or anything, I just a “distinct” taste in gaming

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    I go to the same barbershop every two month or so, but not always tge same barber. Every now and then i get a guy around my age who is pretty chatty, but we have literally nothing i. Common. So every time he remembers that i play video games, because he also plays video games. But for now a decade or so, his answer is always: fifa and cod and gta, when the new one came out. He has literally no idea what i’m talking about when i name some games i play. “Video games” to him is synonymous for fifa and call of duty. So we still have nothing in common

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      Depending on how you gauge him, maybe you’re his opportunity to discover a vast fun world of indie games? At the very least, if you’re tired of him talking your ear off about Ball and Gun, you could at least talk his ear off about Expedition 33. Yapping as a defense mechanism.

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    I’ve had several girlfriends who were like “you play video games? Like… <worried expression> call of duty?”

    They were all relieved when I was like no.

    Less relieved when I got them to play cuphead co-op.

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      I’m not a COD guy, I prefer battlefield.

      I always included my partners into playing it with me. Either taking turns or, as my partner for life, has come to love. Minimap watcher!

      She calls out whatever is on the radar. Saved my ass so many times. I know it has to have made somebody mad, cause there’s times when she notices someone on the minimal and tells me turn around or something, and I end up getting em.

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          Thank you. It really is. It started in bf1. I am colorblind (can’t remember which) but bf1 blended together for me a lot. Made it harder to see folks. She came in clutch more than I can count.

          She’s the reason I have, I think 3 of the 4 horsemen dog tags.

          And she’s great overwatch when I am flying heli with my buddy Squash on bf6. She can spot an enemy heli the moment it comes out. Where as I am basically blind because of my sight.

          And she’s even gotten better at playing herself. Especially since we’ve worked on our communication skills and I have learned not to be so “harsh” sounding when she messes up a firefight and gets vented. And she’s learned that I’m not trying to be mean, but get the point across that you gotta stay calm under fire.

          Something I love about her is that she’ll admit when she’s wrong, even when I am the bigger asshole. She can sit there look me in the eyes and say “how you acted wasn’t right, but I can see how I was acting made you act that way.”

          To be acknowledged, to be seen as human, to be loved even when flawed. I wouldn’t trade it for the universe.

          I’ll never be able to pay this woman back for the love she has given me and the support she has shown me. I’ll shutup now, as I could just go on about my partner.

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            Thank you for sharing this sweet story! I hope for you two to have a long and healty relationship!

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              Thank you! 12 yrs going strong. 6 yr old kid running us up a wall lol. Couldn’t ask for more. I’m as rich as a man can be.

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    Niche stuff casuals rarely play.

    that’s the kind of gatekeeping I’d like to avoid in my hobby

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    I play the wikipedia game. Start on a random article, click the first link over and over until you reach philosophy. How many clicks did it take? try and beat that

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    And then I go “Hey what if you could play CoD from the perspective of the psychopathic senior officers whose orders make all this violence happen?”

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      “Rimworld, what’s that?”

      “Its like the Sims on a hostile alien planet with robots and cannibalism”

      “Cannibalism?!”

      "Yea… Usually not intentionally. I mean no one sets to eat their friends or even their enemies but after a few lean seasons and you have run out of pets… But it’s not like you let them go to waste, you can use the leather too.

      … (Doesn’t notice them pulling away)

      Human leather is actually kind of a premium value product…". “Hey where’d you go?!”

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      Yeah this post doesn’t make sense. Natasha Legerro said it best “I’d rather walk in on my boyfriend jerking off while hanging him self than have one of those CoD headsets on”

      CoD/ Fortnite/Counterstrike players, to each their own, but I can guarantee you that they’re not perceived by women as superior to indie game players as the padme meme insinuates. If anything, girls like watching indie games being played than the mindless slop battle royale type games that necessitate micro transactions and headsets.

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    Since you didn’t mention those games by name: do you play them with one hand, perchance? 🤪

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    old games, indie games, games with the graphics settings turned all the way down

    What’s the polar opposite of AAA?

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      What’s the polar opposite of AAA

      Submarine sims, 4X, point and click, euro jank, everything older than 2020, everything single player.

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      My video game habits closely match my music taste: everything except new pop country and mumble rap (coming around on Migos, though). Ill play any game that isnt an FPS or third person open world.

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        Highly recommend giving Spec Ops: The Line and Kane and Lynch 2 a shot, those games stray in really interesting ways from the third person shooter formula.

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    Love me some factory simulators but most people haven’t heard of them. Games like Satisfactory or Dyson Sphere Program, or the one I’m putting way too many hours into right now Captain of Industry.

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      How could you play all of those and not Factorio? Did a 2D sprite kill your parents?