Not so much tips but more acknowledgment, and (for me) one of the first who make useful distinctions between the two brains (the autism brain and the adhd brain) and how they often pull in different directions and create paralysis and fatigue.

And the tips of how she lives with him is really helpful too, where the neurodivergent person would not think of that as unusual and the neurotypical really needs a lot of kindness, empathy and understanding to understand that world.