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Idk, I think that’s a pretty reasonable take! The idea that “Exotic Becomes Erotic”, though Bem was talking about queer development when they termed it, really rings true here. We’re in an era where a vast sea of free porn exists alongside countless people that are more than willing to take your money in exchange for little more than a parasocial relationship in lace stockings, and people are lonelier and more isolated than ever. It’s not really surprising that for some, the basis for attraction is shifting away from the commonly available (OnlyFans parasociality and porn and such) and towards what has become exotic, like (for example) people who are doing it because they just enjoy being a nerdy exhibitionist goth slut; the context provides a much richer experience, which is difficult to find elsewhere.