The more I hear people talk about it who aren’t cis-het men, the more I hear criticism about the concept. But so far, I’ve only heard people say that it’s stupid, that it’s not a thing, that it’s men’s own fault etc. But I’ve yet to understand where that criticism comes from. I don’t want to start a discussion on whether or not it’s real or not. I just want to understand where the critics are coming from.
I disagree with the sentiment that it can’t be a useful term simply because you haven’t found a peer reviewed study describing the phenomenon. I would like to see more research be done, but that doesn’t change the fact that I’m seeing the issue directly in front of my eyes.
I only implied that it’s not helpful to have political groups instrumentalizing the loneliness of men to push a certain agenda (which doesn’t even do anything to get men out of their loneliness, rather the opposite). Nor is it helpful to stylize general loneliness into a sex-specific problem when all sexes are affected equally and with very similar patterns.