• JackbyDev@programming.dev
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    1 day ago

    Was it necessary to intentionally call someone bro just to poke the bear? Yes, it’s weird that they don’t like the term, yeah, but people intentionally going out of their way to call them bro is literally bullying. Yes, it’s bad that they threatened to ban people for downvoting their comments, but it doesn’t make bullying okay. If people want to fling valid criticism their way, that’s fine, but just calling someone bro when they said they don’t like it is pretty childish.

    Take this comment, it is pretty clear, but doesn’t call them a name they specifically asked to not be called. https://quokk.au/comment/1473591

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      19 hours ago

      I would agree, but also I would say harassing people based on their voting, and threatening them, is bullying. As the saying goes, what’s good for the goose is good for the gander. If they don’t want to be bullied, they shouldn’t bully. I’m in favor of taking advantage of teachable moments to reduce abuse in the long term.