• Warl0k3@lemmy.world
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    9 hours ago

    Have you considered that the other person here is of perfectly normal intelligence, and you’re just very bad at explaining your position on an extremely sensitive subject? Seriously, I hope you’re just badly fumbling this because oh boy are you presenting yourself like an asshole right now. I’m skeptical that’s it, since you’re clearly lashing out by insulting their intelligence (which frequently correlates) but I also understand how frustrating it can be to try and explain things and be repeatedly told it’s problematic. Maybe take a breath and try this one again. Or just tell me to fuck off, settling the matter and letting us downvote you with a clear conscience

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      9 hours ago

      and you’re just very bad at explaining your position on an extremely sensitive subject?

      An extremely sensitive subject is normally discussed the same way as an absolutely mundane subject, just very sensitive.

      Like a big system is like a small system, just big. And vice versa.

      Order of statements in a conversation or actions in a conflict matters, and a statement or an action can have different weight.

      Quite obviously if you are generally right, but have used some nasty insults, you are still generally right. Even if the other side is perfectly polite.