• violet08_@lemmy.worldOP
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    2 hours ago

    but they let me put their cocks together to suck them at once😒

    is cocks touching less gay than kissing?

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      2 hours ago

      Kissing is the one thing that crosses the line for some reason, for sooo many situations. “Straight” dudes willing to suck another dude’s dick, but won’t kiss another guy because it’s gross. It’s the same for a lot of other kinks. Threesomes, cuckolding, incest, etc etc

      I think the border lays in the fact that kissing is a normal activity between couples, and that’s real life, whereas indulging kinks can almost be compartmentalized as an extreme form of getting off to porn (ergo fake, fantasy - not real, or “doesn’t count”)

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        I mean also people’s sexual orientation can be different than their romantic orientation, and kissing is more of a romantic thing

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      Yes. Ballsacks are ok too during a DP, but I’m not going to kiss the guy. That’s just weird.

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    That’s my partner. I mean, I’m fine with fooling around with another dude, so it’s no big deal. But boy, does she wants to see me either be the top or be the bottom. It’s like one of her biggest request besides pegging me.