• xkbx@startrek.website
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    3 hours ago

    Kissing is the one thing that crosses the line for some reason, for sooo many situations. “Straight” dudes willing to suck another dude’s dick, but won’t kiss another guy because it’s gross. It’s the same for a lot of other kinks. Threesomes, cuckolding, incest, etc etc

    I think the border lays in the fact that kissing is a normal activity between couples, and that’s real life, whereas indulging kinks can almost be compartmentalized as an extreme form of getting off to porn (ergo fake, fantasy - not real, or “doesn’t count”)

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      I mean also people’s sexual orientation can be different than their romantic orientation, and kissing is more of a romantic thing

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        1 hour ago

        im far to wise to fall for your obvious ploy of getting me to kiss icky ladies and suck off my buff homies