• cub Gucci@lemmy.today
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    2 days ago

    More furious about how and why 2 consenting adults when one is married having sex has 90% disapproval rating.

    Not advocating for anything, but if everybody does it, it becomes futile

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      1 day ago

      Cheating is shitty. I’m glad to see that most people agree with this, even if the % of cheaters is likely considerably higher than 9%

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      1 day ago

      funny how you completely forgot the third person in the equation.

      wtf do you mean if everybody does it… why would everybody cheat their spouses

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      I don’t think the act of sex is the immoral part people are responding to, it’s the infidelity to that other spouse that’s the issue. Assuming they dont have some agreement on extra marital affairs.

      Some people still would probably call that wrong, but I only think so if it goes outside the vows you made when you got married or are otherwise being dishonest when going about it.

    • wabasso@lemmy.ca
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      1 day ago

      I assume it’s such a clear cut case due to the betrayal of the promise of monogamy. And you can’t use the “it’s so common it’s futile” argument in a rebuttal to the morality of meat consumption!