• wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz
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    It’s a perfectly reasonable expectation to have that people should be able to make a decent living while still having enough free time to spend with family and loved ones; or in the absence of a family, doing whatever one chooses to do in their freetime, up to and including commiserating with others about their loneliness.

    If you don’t agree with that, then you’re not a friend of the proletariat. You’re licking oligarch boots if you think everyone else should have to work every minute of their waking life to survive just because you do.

    If you really have to work that much, and you think the problem is that not everyone else has to work as much as you do, instead of the problem being that anyone should have to work as much as you claim to, then you’re a fucking class traitor and a corporate shill.

    I don’t give a fuck if you think other people are “lesser shit” or that their problems don’t matter. And if that’s honestly how you feel, then I don’t give a fuck about your problems either, because solidarity isn’t a one-way street.

    You can call it a “boo-hoo hissy fit” every time someone mentions a problem they face that you don’t care about, but don’t expect any fucking sympathy when you’re the one complaining about your problems, as you’re doing now.

    Feel free to call people parasites for not living like slaves. That’s the rhetoric fascists use, so at least you’re taking the mask off.

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      Why should I not be a fascist if I’m judged only by my immutable characteristics, if the world wants me gone, what incentive do I have not to be the same?

      I have been holding back, putting up with bullshit, being kind to people who treat me like dirt because I believed in giving people a chanc. Then they go vote in the Jeffrey Epsteins, and try to exterminate those like me.

      You get what you fucking deserve!

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        “Why should I not be a fascist if…”

        That’s something only a fascist would say.

        if I’m judged only by my immutable characteristics

        What immutable characteristic do you think you’re being judged by? I don’t know anything about you or your immutable characteristics.

        I’m not judging you for any immutable characteristics. I’m judging you for being an unsympathetic and pretentious asshole who wants to be a part of the problem instead of part of the solution. You want to tear people down to your level, not lift everyone (including yourself) up to a baseline level of dignity and respect. That’s why I’m judging you.

        if the world wants me gone, what incentive do I have not to be the same?

        That’s basically the same rhetoric that zionists use to justify genociding their neighbors. Are you agreeing with them by saying it’s a valid argument?

        I have been holding back, putting up with bullshit, being kind to people who treat me like dirt because I believed in giving people a chance.

        I could sympathize with that. I’ve felt the same way for a long time. But that’s no excuse to start punching down. Direct your anger at the source of the problem, not at your fellow victims just because they’re easier targets.

        Then they go vote in the Jeffrey Epsteins, and try to exterminate those like me.

        Yes, that’s a problem. Focus on that, not on lonely guys on the internet who are trying to find a sense of community in some of the only places that actually accept them.

        You get what you fucking deserve!

        You’re projecting a lot of weight onto me with that statement. Weight that I haven’t earned. I won’t sit by and tolerate you treating me like a maga asshole despite the fact that I’ve done everything in my power to resist their return to power. You don’t know shit about me.

        If friendly fire is your only tactic, go join the fascists and be self-destructive over there.

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          No point talking here anyway. People only comprehend certain things when they feel it raw themselves.

          Then maybe you will understand why Incels and Femcels are actually an afront. To be so coddled that you have the gal to feel entitled to other people dating you, while the world burns, while there are more important things out there.

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            You’re missing the point entirely. And I’m not going to rehash everything just to explain how.

            Oh, but what I will say is that people who are isolated are fractured and weak. A bunch of isolated individuals can not present a very strong resistance. So one would think you’d have more sympathy for people trying to find community, even in small ways.

            But if you’re just going to call those people coddled (by whom? Who’s coddling them, if they’re isolated and lonely? Bad logic) and pretend it’s about entitlement and not the empirically verified deep-seated psychological need that all humans have for camaraderie and socialization, then I can’t really help you and I’m not gonna waste my time trying.

            So go on, keep punching down on the vulnerable, while you’re focusing all your ire on them instead of the problems that you claim they should be focused on (as if people can’t consider about more than one problem?).

            People only comprehend certain things when they feel it raw themselves.

            Self-awarewolf, eh? You’re the one here complaining that other people have problems that you don’t care about or sympathize with.

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              21 hours ago

              Trust me, I learned not to want or need people, it is a choice and not a need. And if you constantly desire things while you are still insecure, you will just hurt more.

              Better to cut the scab early. Quit coffee as soon as you can, quit YouTube, become sober, focus on self-improvement, stop depending on people.

              The sooner you do this, the less you will hurt.