Joint is when it’s too hot and too much with my low tolerance. I need a couple hits, so not my choice.
Pipe is hot smoke, so meh. Last resort option, for when you go somewhere and want it to fit into a pocket.
Bong is a sweet spot - not hot, and you can put however much you want.
For all the three, effect is the same, so only really depends on how much you smoke.
Edibles: for me the effect is slower and more even throughout the time. And if you make edibles yourself it’s kinda waste of product because some of the wffect is lost when you cook stuff (bake brownies, etc). But is the best option for non-smokers.
There is also an option of mixing tobacco and weed/hash with tobacco in a usual cigarette, it was a good way to not have a full joint of weed for me, but I quit smoking years ago and I don’t want to accidentally get back to it.