• Zink@programming.dev
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    14 hours ago

    I appreciate you sharing, and I mean this as a light-hearted comment and not an insult:

    You discussing your difficulties in getting NPD treatment while also capitalizing pronouns referring to yourself is 🤌

    • Grail@multiverse.soulism.net
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      5 hours ago

      Haha, yeah, I realise that. I’m nonbinary, and I have one of those xenogenders where My gender is outside of the male-female spectrum, so I use neopronouns. I’m very aware that My personality disorder, gender, and kintype are all very linked. It’s kind of a chicken-and-egg problem, because which came first? Did parental abuse and genetics combine to give Me NPD as a small child, which influenced how My gender grew as I aged? Or was I born with this gender as My destiny, and did being treated as a boy traumatise Me into developing NPD? It could be either one, or both.