Right but like, I’m basically from them.

And I am a guy.

And I have been insecure.

I addressed this via self reflection, learning about myself and others, finding things I wanted to become good at and then becoming good at them.

Like I totally agree with you that trucknutz are literally gender affirming care, but I… I don’t get it.

I can’t relate to or understand such people beyond pathologizing them and basically treating them as an NPC sub type.