A lack of filter means saying whatever is on your mind without considering politeness, appropriateness, relevance, or respect for the situation. People who have no filter may use profanity when they should not or bring up sensitive topics such as religion, politics, sex, body parts, or body odors in ways that offend others. Human communication follows social norms, and these norms discourage creating unnecessary controversy, embarrassing people, or discussing highly divisive topics in casual conversation. When someone ignores these norms, they may be seen as awkward, weird, or socially unaware, and others may feel unsafe or uncomfortable interacting with them. Appropriateness is a skill that can be learned by thinking before speaking, considering the audience and situation, and asking whether something is respectful, relevant, and suitable to say.

  • turtlesareneat@piefed.ca
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    4 days ago

    About the #1 thing for me to loosen up socially was to avoid lists of things you have to “stop doing immediately” and shit like that because they get me in my head, then I’m triple-thinking everything and saying nothing.

    Rather than “do not” tips I try to focus on “do” tips for people improving socialization.

    “Showing interest and asking questions” is a #1 tip which precludes you doing a lot of rude things.

    If you swear a little while doing that, no one is going to be upset.