If I had an extra hour or a few hours a day when I had free time, I wanted to help people online, something like support or something like that.

Why do I want this? The answer is: It brings me pleasure when I manage to help someone at least a little. And also when I listened to people on the Internet, just random people, they didn’t even ask for help, I somehow instinctively felt that they had some kind of problems by the tone of their messages, and in the end I managed to cheer them up at least a little.

  • deadymouse@lemmy.worldOP
    1·
    2 hours ago

    I’m sorry that happened! Possibly he wanted to retain his independence as long as possible or sensed a threat (muggers offer “help” before mugging). It’s always best to ask if you can be of assistance, and a simple, “Are you sure? It’s no trouble,” if declined is enough reassurance without being pushy. If the offer is declined a second time, a cheerful and sincere “Okay, have a great day/evening!” is an unakward way to take your leave.

    Honestly, I did as you said, but that didn’t stop him from doing what he did, lol. Oh, these old people.

    • Maeve@kbin.earth
      2·
      58 minutes ago

      Well, it’s not for everyone. I’ve had my feelings hurt when I just wanted to help too. You do what best fits for you.