Damn! I’ve got to assume that that likely wasn’t all PIV?
Like, I’ve been able to keep uh, full mast going through a refractory period, a couple of times, but… yeah, its not easy.
Usually gotta either give the little guy a bit of of break, use some other kind of stimulatory body part or tool… or basically find some position / situation where I’m effectively edging myself but getting her over the top.
Yeah, whole lot of other erogenous zones and spots, everyone is a bit different as to how sensitive they are to which ones and which combinations of them.
I would have been extremely surprised if you were saying PIV got you to +10 orgasms, hence why I asked lol.
When I’m with a woman, my rough rule of thumb is that she should have orgasmed at least once before my pants are even off. Lost art of foreplay, and all that.
EDIT
But yeah, very broadly speaking, at least in my own experience, if you can find a PIV position where the clitoris is either being directly sort of smooshed or rubbed by the guy’s … i guess just ‘pubic region’, or the position is such that a free hand can also ‘massage’ the clitoris… tends to work better for the lady.
And also, there are specific erogenous zones in basically the rear of the vagina, anterior and posterior fornix, i think are the names? Some women have i guess you’d say ‘high sensitivity’ there, some have it at the gspot, some have it at both.
You’re right that for most women, those areas alone being stimulated isn’t enough, but, for some, it is.
You’re right that for most women, those areas alone being stimulated isn’t enough, but, for some, it is.
Yep, most women need clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm. Most =/= all.
The way some men in here are throwing fits about women being able to orgasm without a penis is pretty funny though. How did any of you think wlw have sex?
All women are different, but my first is usually very weak. They intensify as they come (lol ;) ). I orgasm relatively quickly and then every few minutes after that. I expect a handful in a regular session, only 1 to 3 if it’s a quickie for him, like 20 or more if it’s a session for me.
When I’m with a partner where I don’t cum a lot (or at all), sex is a chore and I’m not really interested. With my husband where I almost always cum a lot, I have literally never said no thank you to sex in 6 years. I often wake him with a blowie to get things going.
So. I guess if you want to fuck a lot, we want many damn orgasms.
Yeah, on my first love it was the contrary to this. Making her orgasm was a full-day affair but when it came she’d nearly lose consciousness. She was perfectly fine with not having to orgasm for months but i’d defo tell her to make certain dates completely free.
As a man, I’m more curious about just how many I can get out of her. Don’t get me wrong, I’m looking to get off too, but I like to keep a stacked ratio, not quite a score but kinda. You kinda sound like you’re just out to get yours. Where’s the fun in that?
* Women reached the first orgasm in 14 mins.
Yeah, that was great, but we’ve got a few hours ahead of us here …
We’ve had one yes.
I don’t think he knows about second orgasm, Pippin
As a man, how many damn orgasms do you want in a fuck?
I think my record has been 12-14 orgasms in a single session.
There’s a handful of fun benefits to being a cis woman.
Just for the record, post-op trans women can manage multiples very nicely too ;-)
(Sample size off two in my research)
Ok, I think men can learn from this. So how? Did the before after op have anything to do with it? Or was that ability already with you?
That’s so cool!! Today I learned!
Cis men/ trans women can do it too, but it requires backdoor access.
Backroom mentioned 🇬🇩🇬🇩
Jesus Christ! Hell of person you were with too I must say.
It was a team effort :)
Damn! I’ve got to assume that that likely wasn’t all PIV?
Like, I’ve been able to keep uh, full mast going through a refractory period, a couple of times, but… yeah, its not easy.
Usually gotta either give the little guy a bit of of break, use some other kind of stimulatory body part or tool… or basically find some position / situation where I’m effectively edging myself but getting her over the top.
Cock ring my guy
Oh those work as well, I just… I guess I just think of them as ‘easy mode’, compared to doing kegels and such + using your hands/mouth etc.
You do you
No, I don’t generally cum during PIV. Most women don’t cum from penile insertion alone.
In fact, there was no penis involved at all during that particular session.
That makes much more sense.
Yeah, whole lot of other erogenous zones and spots, everyone is a bit different as to how sensitive they are to which ones and which combinations of them.
I would have been extremely surprised if you were saying PIV got you to +10 orgasms, hence why I asked lol.
When I’m with a woman, my rough rule of thumb is that she should have orgasmed at least once before my pants are even off. Lost art of foreplay, and all that.
EDIT
But yeah, very broadly speaking, at least in my own experience, if you can find a PIV position where the clitoris is either being directly sort of smooshed or rubbed by the guy’s … i guess just ‘pubic region’, or the position is such that a free hand can also ‘massage’ the clitoris… tends to work better for the lady.
And also, there are specific erogenous zones in basically the rear of the vagina, anterior and posterior fornix, i think are the names? Some women have i guess you’d say ‘high sensitivity’ there, some have it at the gspot, some have it at both.
You’re right that for most women, those areas alone being stimulated isn’t enough, but, for some, it is.
Yep, most women need clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm. Most =/= all.
The way some men in here are throwing fits about women being able to orgasm without a penis is pretty funny though. How did any of you think wlw have sex?
Yeah I don’t know.
Porn exists where no men are present.
Vibrators… pretty common thing as well.
I… yeah I don’t know how anyone who has like, used the internet before, can somehow not understand how you don’t need a dick for sex to happen.
Women don’t like sex, silly! It’s just a way to control men uWu
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All women are different, but my first is usually very weak. They intensify as they come (lol ;) ). I orgasm relatively quickly and then every few minutes after that. I expect a handful in a regular session, only 1 to 3 if it’s a quickie for him, like 20 or more if it’s a session for me.
When I’m with a partner where I don’t cum a lot (or at all), sex is a chore and I’m not really interested. With my husband where I almost always cum a lot, I have literally never said no thank you to sex in 6 years. I often wake him with a blowie to get things going.
So. I guess if you want to fuck a lot, we want many damn orgasms.
Yeah, on my first love it was the contrary to this. Making her orgasm was a full-day affair but when it came she’d nearly lose consciousness. She was perfectly fine with not having to orgasm for months but i’d defo tell her to make certain dates completely free.
As a man, I’m more curious about just how many I can get out of her. Don’t get me wrong, I’m looking to get off too, but I like to keep a stacked ratio, not quite a score but kinda. You kinda sound like you’re just out to get yours. Where’s the fun in that?
For me, typically 4 to 6 over about a 3 hour session (break for a quick drink and to use the loo included, I’m not 20 any more)
And the same for my wife, of course.