• velma@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    3 days ago

    Do you genuinely not see how what you said in this context was totally uncalled for and sexist?

    Not only does he not see it, but the amount of upvotes on his comments reveal yet again the majority opinion on this site and it’s disgusting.

    • potoooooooo 🥔@lemmy.world
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      2 days ago

      Or you’re both reading the intended meaning uncharitably and huffing your own farts over your own superiority, which is exhausting and pointless to reply to.

      The point was clearly, “It goes both ways.” He can use his mouth, too, so can she! Boo lazy men lovers, boo lazy women lovers. Unless that’s what you’re into!

      • velma@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        2 days ago

        I wasn’t talking about anyone being a lazy lover.

        Acknowledging that there’s different ways to have sex besides using a penis isn’t some crazy statement that needs to be challenged by complaining about women.

    • protist@retrofed.com
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      3 days ago

      I’m honestly surprised by the piling on of downvotes. I thought people here were at least slightly more self aware than reddit, given how LGBTQ inclusive most instances here are, but I was obviously naive.