• msage@programming.dev
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    2 days ago

    Great write up, thank you very much, I will study more.

    Some things are harder to achieve in the moment without former practice, and even sexy talk is better trained in calmer settings, but life is messy and… people in general need less work and more time for themselves and each other.

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      2 days ago

      Sex is a skill, and like any skill it takes research and practice.

      But I’m sure there aren’t many men out there who wouldn’t want their partner to practice on them, so go for it!

      In the beginning I used to always plan beforehand to have a couple cool things I could do, maybe something to surprise her with or something. And backup plans in case the original idea didn’t work out as expected.

      After a while it becomes really easy.