Context: I’m 19 and completely inexperienced when it comes to dating. Two days ago, my friend, her boyfriend, and I were supposed to go see Backrooms together, but one of the boyfriend’s friends joined us last minute. This guy insisted on paying for my movie ticket, snacks, dinner afterward, and even 3 books when we stopped at a bookstore, and then he drove me home. After the movie, I mentioned that I wanted to see Obsession next because, in my mind, they’re kind of sister movies, and he said we should go see it together, which we did yesterday. He acted the exact same way then too. He’s also going fishing on Sunday, and I’m going with him. I’ve never had a guy act like this toward me before, so I honestly don’t know what to make of it. But I really love it, and I can’t stop thinking about him.


Fellas, this proves we’re not the only dumb ones when it comes to noticing someone is into us.
Yea he’s into you. Either that or he’s trying to get into your pants really quickly. Up to you to figure that out, whether he just wants to fuck or if he wants an actual nice relationship.
Presuming they’re both ~19, I’m going with potentially <-> likely uh, all of the above, + completely terrified.
First loves are… pretty confusing.
And whether she actually likes him.
Her thinking this is one thing but saying it is fully different. She’s into him too for sure.
I can’t stop thinking about my neighbour, but that’s because she’s the most obnoxious woman I’ve ever met.
yea ig context matters
Many in this thread seems to be assuming “she” but was that stated?
We don’t give a damn
Same way US-Americans don’t feel the need to specify that they’re talking about the USA on international sites (nationality being quite relevant to this kind of question), heterosexual people generally don’t feel the need the need to state that they’re talking about a heterosexual relationship. Bit of a different dynamic if OP is male or enby.