Feeling judged by my female friends.

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    3 days ago

    I have a built-in hand soap pump in the kitchen, and a big bottle in the bathroom. Plus, separate refill bottles for each. No one wants to come over to my house. With the popularity of the bad-boy archetype, I have to wonder if there’s some sort of correlation?

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      3 days ago

      These men were not of the bad-boy archetype hahahaha

      They were just bachelors and some guys are cleaner than others.

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        Understood! I’m just thinking about my own life, where I feel like I’ve noticed an inverse correlation between conscientiousness and sexual attractiveness in the men that I know.

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          Ah my anecdotal experiences would counter that inverse correlation ;)

          Men who are conscientious, kind, and have emotional intelligence are incredibly more sexy than the reverse. But then we’re wandering into topics of personal attraction and turn ons and we could talk all day about individual preferences haha