• sanpo@sopuli.xyz
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    20 hours ago

    If you expect them to dress up for no reason, sure.

    Go where people actually have a reason to care and you’ll find them…

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      19 hours ago

      It is expected to dress up for high end dining…. Even when traveling. It’s not “no reason”

      That’s the point OP is making. Nobody is dressing up.

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        19 hours ago

        Last time I went to a nice restaurant, my wife and I were the only ones dressed nicely.

        She wore a nice dress, I wore a shirt & tie; the entire rest of the restaurant was enjoying $75 entrees in designer athlesiure outfits.

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          17 hours ago

          I think ties have fallen out of fashion. At least in business dress. Button up shirt, nice slacks and a sport coat, all tailored. You have to specify black tie if you want people in fancy dress.

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          15 hours ago

          Designer clothes are designed clothes. The pretentiousness of looking like you have money was still there, just people do it differently now. You don’t scream “money” by wearing a suit you could’ve got tailored at Macy’s. There’s douchebag designer shit you can wear where it’s clear you spent a lot on it, and people recognize it.

          Clothes and dressing nice has always had a pretentious side. Some people used to just be showing off they could afford a suit and nice clothes. Now it doesn’t mean as much. You show off you can afford to spend extra money on designer jeans.

      • HertzDentalBar@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        13 hours ago

        Last time I went for a fancy dinner I wore jeans and a work shirt. And that was like a $350 dinner. I’m paying for the view not to be judged for my dress.