minus-squareDr. Saxon Crawfish@lemmy.todaytoNo Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Americans: How the hell do you meet new people or get into relationships after college?linkfedilinkarrow-up14arrow-down4·1 day agoMeeting people is the easy part. Do this at: Work Hobbies and Organised Activities Church or other Spiritual Communities Online, both locally and long-distance. Though after meeting people, phase two is the most difficult: actually convincing people to hang out and do stuff. Then phase three is actually creating and maintaining the friendship, lol. These all become exponentially harder if you need complete ideological purity from your friends and romantic partners. linkfedilink
minus-squareDr. Saxon Crawfish@lemmy.todaytoNo Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How to stay sane in a hostile environment that you can't get out of?linkfedilinkarrow-up4arrow-down1·1 month agoStudy the stoics. https://www.gutenberg.org/ebooks/2680 linkfedilink
Meeting people is the easy part. Do this at:
Work Hobbies and Organised Activities Church or other Spiritual Communities Online, both locally and long-distance.
Though after meeting people, phase two is the most difficult: actually convincing people to hang out and do stuff.
Then phase three is actually creating and maintaining the friendship, lol.
These all become exponentially harder if you need complete ideological purity from your friends and romantic partners.