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  • You can never change the past, but you can change the future.

    Your mistakes are going to continue, in fact they will probably get bigger. I’ll be vulnerable, I fucked up majorly and was let go from a previous job. It was a stupid fuckup, I should have caught it earlier, and it caused real money to be lost by the company and I let down my team. That guilt and embarrassment will stick with me for a long time.

    However, I can’t let it stop me. It paralyzed me for a bit, I lost my confidence and stopped wanting to try at my position, but then one day I just started thinking about it. What did I actually do wrong, where did I go wrong, how did I let people down, and I decided I wanted to do my best to avoid that. So now at a new job I remember that incident, and I call out things earlier, I’m a bit less cocky, I do several little things that I just had to learn the hard way I guess.

    The long point of my anecdote I guess is that those feelings never really go away, you’ll always be laying there at night and thinking about them. Growing though is acknowledging them, not trying to hide from them, and figuring out how you want to better yourself going forward.





  • Yellow is a dick.

    If you can make fun of yourself, awesome. Shows maturity. Piling onto someone else though is a dick move.

    The best joke in response to self deprecating humor is self deprecating humor. If yellow was funny they would have made a joke about themselves then, not piled on.

    I know it’s a meme, but for those who may not know, that’s the social cue.

    Learned the same from scrubs. They can make fun of their kid, you can make fun of your kid, but you better not make fun of their kid.