Just because you had that hard lesson doesn’t mean you have to inflict that hard lesson on other people.
It’s not hard to send some variation of a no second date message. Even just a copy pasted polite template is better than nothing. If you don’t want to deal with their response, just block after hitting send and move on.
Thank you for the date, but I’m not feeling the chemistry for another meeting. I appreciate you taking the time, best of luck out there!
I mean, you aren’t wrong. I generally try to unless it’s really obvious. Like if I think the person and i are on the same page. I’m not out here to hurt anybody. But that’s also why I think it’s important to learn that lesson so you don’t get hurt. Like, teach your kids to have a reasonable self confidence so they aren’t fucking so self centered that they’re overly sensitive. Dont expect the world to bend to you, specifically, and have a modicum of some self emotional reliance.
Just because you had that hard lesson doesn’t mean you have to inflict that hard lesson on other people.
It’s not hard to send some variation of a no second date message. Even just a copy pasted polite template is better than nothing. If you don’t want to deal with their response, just block after hitting send and move on.
I mean, you aren’t wrong. I generally try to unless it’s really obvious. Like if I think the person and i are on the same page. I’m not out here to hurt anybody. But that’s also why I think it’s important to learn that lesson so you don’t get hurt. Like, teach your kids to have a reasonable self confidence so they aren’t fucking so self centered that they’re overly sensitive. Dont expect the world to bend to you, specifically, and have a modicum of some self emotional reliance.
Both can be right at the same time.