• Skullgrid@lemmy.world
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    10 hours ago

    Please explain how you’d feel after the partner you are married to cheats on you, then sends you to jail for several months.

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      10 hours ago

      Christ, Lemmy really is going downhill. Someone is making an argument of fact, and you’re making an argument on emotions.

      These are clearly not the same thing, yet you’re still here making bad faith arguments.

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          yeah, cheating isn’t abuse that leads to long term psychological damage, go cheating lady, that’s E M P O W E R M E N T! Go get them gals! No one can get evidence of you abusing a partner mentally, giving them trust problems for decades, since you’re fucking someone, and that’s fantastic!

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                Now I’m pushing back on your assertion that abuse is justified when there’s cheating. You leave the relationship, you don’t get permission to abuse your spouse.

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                    He could’ve recorded plenty after the sex happened and still have proof without violating sexual consent.

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      10 hours ago

      That doesn’t allow me to start recording them having sex without consent, same as it doesn’t allow me to hit them just because I’m angry.