A husband who used a robot vacuum to catch his wife cheating on him ended up facing a criminal conviction himself after deliberately recording her.
  • Skullgrid@lemmy.worldEnglish
    71·
    7 hours ago

    because you’re bending over backwards to frame someone abusing someone else in a legal system as being the victim.

    • velma@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
      14·
      7 hours ago

      She was the victim in the case of her husband recording her without her consent. And he’s the victim in the case of their marriage breaking because of infidelity.

      One wrong doesn’t justify another wrong.

      Let me ask you - how far do you think he should be allowed to break the law in order to deliver punishment to his wife by his own hand?

      • Skullgrid@lemmy.worldEnglish
        61·
        7 hours ago

        how far do you think he should be allowed to break the law in order to deliver punishment to his wife by his own hand?

        … This is the societal compromise, you get evidence that someone cheated on you instead of murdering them.

        • velma@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
          14·
          6 hours ago

          I’m asking you how far do you think he should be allowed to break the law in order to deliver punishment to his wife for cheating?

          You really think murder is justified in the case of cheating?

          • Skullgrid@lemmy.worldEnglish
            41·
            6 hours ago

            no, I’m saying the alternative to men snapping and killing their partner is giving them a legal system where they can present evidence and get justice.

            • velma@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
              13·
              6 hours ago

              Men are capable of controlling their actions.

              Murdering your wife because she cheated isn’t the only other option to recording someone having sex without consent.

              • Skullgrid@lemmy.worldEnglish
                31·
                6 hours ago

                how far do you think he should be allowed to break the law in order to deliver punishment to his wife by his own hand?

                the reason we have a legal system based on evidence is to prevent people from doing drastic vigilantism

                Murdering your wife because she cheated isn’t the only other option to recording someone having sex without consent.

                thanks

                • velma@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
                  13·
                  6 hours ago

                  I’m saying the alternative to men snapping and killing their partner is giving them a legal system where they can present evidence and get justice.

                  Way to adjust your comment to present a different assertion. You presented a dichotomy: either men get to murder their wives or they can record them cheating to get justice.

                  • Skullgrid@lemmy.worldEnglish
                    41·
                    6 hours ago

                    yeah, because that’s why those laws exist : to prevent people doing horrible vigilante justice