Taking sexual relationship as its own thing, separate from romantic relationship (i.e. separating the sexual and romantic aspects), what is the difference between a friendship and a romantic relationship? What differentiates them, exactly?

  • njordomir@lemmy.world
    16·
    9 hours ago

    I don’t know if I could have a romantic relationship without some sort of sexual feelings involved or at least a potential for them.

    • A relationship is platonic if I want to spend time with someone doing things but don’t want to cuddle, have sex, or kiss.
    • A relationship is sexual if sex is the focus, though friendship may be present.
    • A relationship is romantic when both sex and friendship are focused.

    Let me just say that this is my answer and there is no right answer. It’s more important to clearly communicate your desires and ask other people about theirs.

    These semi-arbitrary lines exist to help you learn to paint, but ultimately, you and your partner(s) are the artists of your relationships and if you’re painting with the right person(s) you can paint however you want, though you should act ethically and respect other’s self-determination.

    • blarghly@lemmy.worldEnglish
      51·
      6 hours ago

      Basically the view I have. What do you call a romantic partner you don’t have sex with? A friend.

      If there’s no sex or sexual tension, there is no romance.