Im having beers at bar ordered wings and tipped $2 everything the bartender brings me.

Beer = $6

tip for beer $2

wings = $20ish

Tip for wings from bartender = $2

Total tips = $4

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Same order from waitress/er = $26

Tip = $5.20

Now I know this is micro example but extrapolate this over several drinks with food and the difference swings the other way. The question remains tho, am I tipping correctly?

  • FreedomAdvocateEnglish
    32·
    11 hours ago

    The only way you’ll ever get rid of tipping culture and not paying living wages because of tipping is to stop tipping. By tipping you’re reinforcing that it’s acceptable practice for businesses to rely on their customers donating to their staff in order for the staff to make a decent wage.

    If everyone stopped tipping, businesses would have to pay higher wages.

    • WhoIsTheDrizzle@lemmy.world
      3·
      9 hours ago

      I disagree. You’d have to organize a national movement with a majority of the relevant population onboard. Can’t even get people to vote. Good luck.

      • FreedomAdvocateEnglish
        11·
        9 hours ago

        You disagree with what? That it’s how you would get rid of tipping culture? Or that it’s possible?

        • WhoIsTheDrizzle@lemmy.world
          2·
          4 hours ago

          I’m an American and I hate tipping culture. I don’t believe your solution to getting rid of tipping culture is viable. I think we collectively as a culture would need to agree not to tip, which isn’t going to happen. A much easier way would be through legislation and forcing employers to pay fair wages. I don’t think customers would be inclined to tip someone making a fair wage. If this thread and hundreds like them on Lemmy and Reddit are any indication, people are generally guilted into tipping because wait staff makes $2/hour or whatever in the states.

          • FreedomAdvocateEnglish
            11·
            3 hours ago

            I think we collectively as a culture would need to agree not to tip

            That’s what I’m saying.

            which isn’t going to happen.

            Not with that attitude it won’t!

            A much easier way would be through legislation and forcing employers to pay fair wages.

            Then you get into the other massive issues - define “fair”. Who defines what is a fair wage? Is it just minimum wage enforcement? If you raise the minimum wage for servers then you have to raise it almost everywhere else, which will fuel massive inflation and job losses.

            I don’t think customers would be inclined to tip someone making a fair wage.

            But when you tip you have no idea what the servers wage is.

            Also as someone else pointed out in here, some states tried to get rid of tipping by raising the minimum wage of these servers and they complained so much the government abandoned it.