All I know is that I love anyone (with a preference for women) regardless of gender. I would say gender does matter to me since I prefer women, but I would love anyone regardless, and would gladly date women, men, and everyone in-between. not only this, but if my love transitioned, I would still love them.
Your sexual attraction has nothing to do with gender - yours or anyone else’s - but with sex.
Homosexuality is same sex attraction.
Bisexual is attraction to both sexes.
Asexual is attraction to neither sex.
Heterosexual is attraction to the opposite sex.
Everything outside of that is really just people trying to give themselves a label to stand out.