When “doing it”, are you regularly thinking about putting clothes away, which clothes to wash next or if you emptied the washing machine? Or when you washed your clothes the last time?
Is it distracting to the point you get soft (for penis havers) or dry (for ADHDers with vaginas)?
I have never been distracted from sexy time, definitely one of the things I can hyperfixate on. Sometimes I try to distract myself to avoid cumming by thinking about something else, and that is difficult to maintain for very long before my mind drifts back. The few times I’ve gone soft was because the other person lost interest partway through and the mood was lost.
I also have a very high sex drive so can easily imagine getting distracted if that drive wasn’t as strong.