Hey I just got a RSS feed post about this topic
https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/Mqg2bqFw8k79sW7C2/you-should-try-contra-dancing
They give one example and explain the nuances of it but its really can be any sort of dancing or adult sports or board game nights or movement arts like taichi, judo, jiu jitsu, or climbing gyms for practicing bouldering, could be volunteering in some cases or LARPing, any sort of rexourring outdoor group that is physically away from devices and is pro social in a way that is low stakes where everyone has their attention on something else so the shy people have a easier time to get in
Talk.
Having a good meal.
TTRPGs and occasionally a lil’ crime.
Avoid them.
Sharing snacks eg nachos, chips and dip
Football
Talk about cats
Gamimg
Either having a deep conversation or sharing an activity that we’re both passionate about. Things involving genitals don’t make it to that list in my case anyway. I count those as chores.
Fall asleep cuddling
Touch their genitals!
millions or even billions of answer choices and you somehow chose the only incorrect one
With my mouth.
I really enjoy hiking, especially in the sort of places where you can explore and choose different routes … hiking is nice, because you’re getting exercise, fresh air, and you can talk to whoever you’re with, with enough time to have a proper in-depth conversation.
And when you’re out in the middle of nowhere, surrounded by nature’s beauty, you can fuck them.
A massage
Stuff that involves their genitals.
Had to check the comments to make sure my answer wasn’t already given.
