I want to improve my social skills. I thought by way of stepping out of my comfort zone. So here’s what I thought:
Try and make conversation to a random person, location or occasion be damned, at least once per week. With saying more than two sentences be deemed sufficient. If the other person does not initially respond amicably (to the first sentence), I leave them alone.
It is a great plan. I recommend you do it in appropriate venues.
Bad venues:
Good venues:
What about a bench in a park?
If they sit down next to you, yes. If you sit down next to them, no.
It’s ok to sit down, say hi, and see if they respond. Maybe they’re trying the same process.
Yes, that would be a case of the other person following my rule.
I would think that is fine, provided it during a high traffic volume time period and with people who are already sitting on the bench.
Seems fine