• db0@lemmy.dbzer0.comM
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    I mean, as much as I like to pile on PTBs, they’re only driving their own users away from their instance. A defederation because their admins keep abusing their power isn’t sufficient imho, because they can’t do anything significant. I feel like defederation should be reserved for cases where their userbase behaviour is overall harmful, such as bigotry, or speech which would drive away marginalized people from our instance to avoid seeing it. Having one of their mods degrade their own instance trust, doesn’t do that and if anything would prevent their users from seeing our agitations.

    That’s my take on this.

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      The problem lies in with the fact that they’re the largest instace on lemmy by a significant margin so they control the playing field. This is like trying to wait for reddit to kill itself. It’s not going to because people start relying on it and getting too used to it and don’t want to bother with anything else. Combine that with admins that are actively harming the fediverse by driving new people away when their instance is the first thing they see? They need to be held over a barrel until Kaplan and Serinus are gone. As for your usage case:

      or speech which would drive away marginalized people from our instance to avoid seeing it.

      The official LW Admin account is officially considering sanctioning and defederation from Dbzer0 based off of a purely slanderous case made by Kaplanwas that the admins of this instance didn’t take it seriously enough based off of their feelings.

      Kaplan has no evidentiary basis for a consideration for this defederation and even admitted as much. If we roll over and accept that then what is even the point? Just accept that Lemmy.world is going to continue throwing hissyfits and the rest of the Fediverse just has to accept it? I want to see something done for outrageous threats made against not just the instance but all 20 thousand users that Kaplan is ready to handwave away based off of their feelings.

      To use Kaplans own words here, it is not my intention to control who can or can’t be on admin teams on another instance but I do expect other instances to understand that an individual admin’s actions reflect their instance as a whole. Something Ruud seems to not care about and something that Kaplan belives does not apply to themself. Overall, the primary response by the LW Admin team has been to frame AN and Dbzer0 as either a small instance that “only has 165 users” or a “vocal minority with an agenda”. For 20,000 users.

      There is a significant difference in the tolerance of hypocrisy on our platforms.

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        Sorry but I just don’t agree that pre-emptive defederation is the right play here. Even with reddit, we still do outreach and try to remind people lemmy exists and that they should move. I think it’s better to keep federated and continue agitating for people and communities to migrate away.

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          Which will be unable to do because Lemmy.world hoovers up everyone instantly and then sets a false narrative with abusive admins. I mean I’m proof of that. I was there for ages because I didn’t realize they were whole ass lying to me.

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            LW repeatedly foot in their mouthing is rapidly changing this. people (yourself included) calling kaplan and the other admins in an important part of that change. let it ride to its natural conclusion.

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            I’m not certain that’s true anymore. The early times of the rexxodus were something else. Most of the people doing outreach are not suggesting L.W anymore and power users like blaze are constantly agitating to move comms away. Plus the fact that the mod team of l.w. is rapidly losing quality and trust is also pushing more and more people away. I just don’t think L.W. hoovers everyone anymore. The paradigm has changed. In fact lemmy as a whole is not gaining as many users as piefed.

            And if that were true and people defaulted to l.w. right now, defederating would be even worse, as these wouldn’t even know we exist.

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                Reddit and Xitter has shown us that humans are extremely “sticky” creatures unfortunately. It takes a lot of effort and pain to get people to change their habits.

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              I am recently new to Lemmy as a whole. I didn’t understand what federation meant or how different instances worked and my first instance was .world. It was not a great experience and nearly turned me away from Lemmy as a whole because it seemed just as bad and corrupt as Reddit (although, with less bots.) Someone explained to me how it worked and convinced me to go to a different instance. I think if I had come to a different instance in the first place, I wouldn’t have had that experience. I wonder how many people were like me and weren’t lucky enough to have someone tell them to just move?