Don_Dickle@lemmy.world to Today I Learned@lemmy.worldEnglish · 3 days agoTIL A 2018 study of 2,304 women, reported that once genital stimulation began, women reached orgasm in an average of 14 minutes during Partnered Sexlockwww.issm.infoexternal-linkmessage-square108fedilinkarrow-up1210arrow-down114
arrow-up1196arrow-down1external-linkTIL A 2018 study of 2,304 women, reported that once genital stimulation began, women reached orgasm in an average of 14 minutes during Partnered Sexlockwww.issm.infoDon_Dickle@lemmy.world to Today I Learned@lemmy.worldEnglish · 3 days agomessage-square108fedilink
minus-squareprotist@retrofed.comlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up7arrow-down33·edit-23 days agoTheir comment wasn’t gendered at all. Yours, however, went straight to being divisive and attacking women… Edit: Lots of downvotes and no replies. Someone please tell me what I said you disagree with
minus-squaresquaresinger@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up10·3 days agoYes, the first comment was gendered. It replied to a man telling him that he should be doing stuff apart from PIV. Of course, if you ignore the context, you can interpret it differently. But ignoring context invalidates any conversation in general.
minus-squarevelma@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1arrow-down9·3 days agoMy comment was not gendered. You’re just a transphobe.
minus-squareprotist@retrofed.comlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2arrow-down2·3 days agoPlease show me where she said “you should be doing something.” All I read is that she provided some other options for sex
minus-squarevelma@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3arrow-down4·edit-22 days agoThese men with their soft feelings can’t handle sex that is on equal footing. I’ve topped more men in my life than these men have fucked women. I know what I’m talking about and it upsets them hahaha
minus-squareprotist@retrofed.comlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2arrow-down3·2 days agoHey now, don’t generalize about men or you’re doing the same thing that rude dude did lol Speaking as a man, it’s not soft feelings leading to this, but deep insecurities, often totally subconscious
minus-squarevelma@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1arrow-down3·edit-22 days agoFair enough, I missed a word in the first sentence: “These** men” He took great offense to idea of sex being more than a penis being inserted into a vagina. It says much more about him than anything else I’ve said here.
Their comment wasn’t gendered at all. Yours, however, went straight to being divisive and attacking women…
Edit: Lots of downvotes and no replies. Someone please tell me what I said you disagree with
Yes, the first comment was gendered.
It replied to a man telling him that he should be doing stuff apart from PIV.
Of course, if you ignore the context, you can interpret it differently. But ignoring context invalidates any conversation in general.
My comment was not gendered.
You’re just a transphobe.
Please show me where she said “you should be doing something.” All I read is that she provided some other options for sex
These men with their soft feelings can’t handle sex that is on equal footing.
I’ve topped more men in my life than these men have fucked women. I know what I’m talking about and it upsets them hahaha
Hey now, don’t generalize about men or you’re doing the same thing that rude dude did lol
Speaking as a man, it’s not soft feelings leading to this, but deep insecurities, often totally subconscious
Fair enough, I missed a word in the first sentence: “These** men”
He took great offense to idea of sex being more than a penis being inserted into a vagina. It says much more about him than anything else I’ve said here.