Feeling judged by my female friends.

  • velma@sh.itjust.works
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    3 days ago

    If you’re cleaning the toilet and doing laundry regularly you’re already ahead of a lot of men.

    There was a time that I had my slut-era post divorce and was seeing several different people. At one point, I was over at 3 different men’s houses over the course of a couple days and not a single one of them had handsoap anywhere in their house. I had a laugh ngl.

    But also maybe give the shower a scrub once in a while along with the toilet, yeah?

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      3 days ago

      Did you look in their showers? There’s perfectly good shampoo you can use for that /s

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          3 days ago

          Works fine, honestly.

          And if you work on cars and stuff a lot, it’s actually much better at cutting through grease and oil grime than regular hand soap.

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            Not when there’s 0 soap in the bathroom and one is touching all the door handles and such to get to the kitchen sink.

            It’s more of a reminder how many men don’t wash their hands after handling their dicks lol

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      I have a built-in hand soap pump in the kitchen, and a big bottle in the bathroom. Plus, separate refill bottles for each. No one wants to come over to my house. With the popularity of the bad-boy archetype, I have to wonder if there’s some sort of correlation?

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        3 days ago

        These men were not of the bad-boy archetype hahahaha

        They were just bachelors and some guys are cleaner than others.

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          Understood! I’m just thinking about my own life, where I feel like I’ve noticed an inverse correlation between conscientiousness and sexual attractiveness in the men that I know.

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            Ah my anecdotal experiences would counter that inverse correlation ;)

            Men who are conscientious, kind, and have emotional intelligence are incredibly more sexy than the reverse. But then we’re wandering into topics of personal attraction and turn ons and we could talk all day about individual preferences haha