Basically you dont. Ive only lost grandparents so far and even that hurts like a bitch. Every day it gets a bit easier, and eventually it’ll just feel normal. Even 10 years down the line you’ll do something awesome and think “i cant wait to show this to dad” and then youll remember and tear up a little.
Theres no “getting over it”, theres just grieving and time. Youre right. It sucks. It sucks hard. But unfortunately thats just the way life is sometimes.
Only bright side I can offer you is that pretty much everyone goes through it in their lives, and it is pretty much as bad as it can get. You’re not likely to feel this upset over anything else.
Basically you dont. Ive only lost grandparents so far and even that hurts like a bitch. Every day it gets a bit easier, and eventually it’ll just feel normal. Even 10 years down the line you’ll do something awesome and think “i cant wait to show this to dad” and then youll remember and tear up a little.
Theres no “getting over it”, theres just grieving and time. Youre right. It sucks. It sucks hard. But unfortunately thats just the way life is sometimes.
Only bright side I can offer you is that pretty much everyone goes through it in their lives, and it is pretty much as bad as it can get. You’re not likely to feel this upset over anything else.
Yea, he died, then a month later my grandma and two uncles died. This year sucked.