• velma@sh.itjust.works
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    9 hours ago

    Revenge porn and recording someone having sex without consent

    Explain to me why you’re clipping my comment out of context to try to make a point.

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      9 hours ago

      because you’re bending over backwards to frame someone abusing someone else in a legal system as being the victim.

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        She was the victim in the case of her husband recording her without her consent. And he’s the victim in the case of their marriage breaking because of infidelity.

        One wrong doesn’t justify another wrong.

        Let me ask you - how far do you think he should be allowed to break the law in order to deliver punishment to his wife by his own hand?

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          how far do you think he should be allowed to break the law in order to deliver punishment to his wife by his own hand?

          … This is the societal compromise, you get evidence that someone cheated on you instead of murdering them.

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            I’m asking you how far do you think he should be allowed to break the law in order to deliver punishment to his wife for cheating?

            You really think murder is justified in the case of cheating?

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              no, I’m saying the alternative to men snapping and killing their partner is giving them a legal system where they can present evidence and get justice.

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                Men are capable of controlling their actions.

                Murdering your wife because she cheated isn’t the only other option to recording someone having sex without consent.

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                  how far do you think he should be allowed to break the law in order to deliver punishment to his wife by his own hand?

                  the reason we have a legal system based on evidence is to prevent people from doing drastic vigilantism

                  Murdering your wife because she cheated isn’t the only other option to recording someone having sex without consent.

                  thanks

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                    I’m saying the alternative to men snapping and killing their partner is giving them a legal system where they can present evidence and get justice.

                    Way to adjust your comment to present a different assertion. You presented a dichotomy: either men get to murder their wives or they can record them cheating to get justice.