• Malica@lemmy.zip
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    16 hours ago

    If you can’t trust the people around you, why are they in your life?

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      42 minutes ago

      You may trust a part of them without trusting them all.

      Also, you may want to hide things to those you trust ; not only for your comfort, but sometimes to do not hurt them in a way that would be too hard for them at a random time.

      And finally, you may want to hide some things from your boss and coworkers. They are close to you in your life, but not needingly your close friends.

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      15 hours ago

      Snooping on your partner’s phone seems to be pretty normalized on reality tv. I wonder if that has caused it. Seems pretty insane to me

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        10 hours ago

        Yeah like. I’ll google stuff on his phone if it’s within reach and mine’s not but like. I’m not combing through his messages or anything that seems exhausting. That seems like the most normal level of openness to me cuz he’s not afraid but I’m also not looking.

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        14 hours ago

        That’s probably because insecure morons make for the best reality TV, not really people I’d take life advice from. I guess other people do 🤷

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          11 hours ago

          I love absolute dogshit reality tv but it does make me worried that for sure a lot of people are looking at that garbage and thinking the stuff in it is normal