When “doing it”, are you regularly thinking about putting clothes away, which clothes to wash next or if you emptied the washing machine? Or when you washed your clothes the last time?
Is it distracting to the point you get soft (for penis havers) or dry (for ADHDers with vaginas)?
The only thing that ever interferes with my ability to perform is being nervous. If this is a new partner, or we are in a location that isn’t completely secure, that will make it more difficult to stay in the mood.
Definitely never had laundry pop in my head during the deed.