• ozymandias@sh.itjust.worksOP
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    11 hours ago

    For the record, I’m not transphobic, I’m not cisgender for sure… My kids is trans…

    “Gee I wonder why Lemmy isn’t more popular!”

    Also, I have never interacted with most of those communities

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      11 hours ago

      This was a problem with Reddit that Lemmy never attempted to solve: you piss one person off (maybe not even through any fault of your own) and rather than just block you, they ban you from every community they moderate.

      However, Reddit didn’t really have a solution to that. Lemmy kind of does: you can make any community you want, and communities that pull crap like this might be avoided by users who don’t tolerate that kind of thing. Or they might not, but the users have more power here.

      One thing Reddit was good for was, one mod would make communities like, say, “iPhone 16,” “iPhone 17,” “iPhone 18,” and so on up to like 50, and then lock them until that phone was announced. Same with game series, movie franchises etc. Then when people opened rival communities, they would brigade them, harass them, post things there with dummy accounts that would violate Reddit rules and get the community banned, stuff like that.

      Lemmy isn’t going to fix all of Reddit’s problems because Lemmy is trying to be an alternative to Reddit, which means the more people Reddit pisses off, the more of them are going to end up here and most of them are going to do the same shit here that they did there. And until people show them that that behaviour will not be tolerated… they’re just gonna keep doing it.

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        10 hours ago

        Lemmy communities need a “total blocked” counter so I can use the information to choose.

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        However, Reddit didn’t really have a solution to that. Lemmy kind of does: you can make any community you want, and communities that pull crap like this might be avoided by users who don’t tolerate that kind of thing. Or they might not, but the users have more power here.

        You say that, but I’m banned from !lemmyshitpost@lemmy.world because of a mod’s hissy fit, yet it remains the biggest community on Lemmy.

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        10 hours ago

        I sometimes block obnoxious people, but I only block myself from seeing them, right? Their newer comments will still be visible for anyone else. I guess the fediverse cannot handle real blocking of people, right ?

        I mean I can understand (not in OPs case) sometimes you want to ban a person, not just block them (again, not in OPs situation, that’s just a childish mod).

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          Lemmy doesn’t, PieFed does.

          If you block someone on PieFed their replies to your comment won’t federate out of the instance they posted it on.

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          Correct.

          You can also, before you block them as a user, look and see what they mod, if anything.

          Block all those comms, then, block the user.

          If everyone were to adopt a paradigm like this, active engagement with the… way that lemmy works, to express displeasure with certain people or comms…

          You end up with a kind of dynamic equilibrium… people who are disliked, disagreed with… their comms just stagnate.

          But, the whole trick is convincing people that… their engagement with lemmy as a system, as a collection of basically message boards run by people… well, it requires active engagement, if you don’t want it to redditify, ossify into cliques of ludicrous powermods.

          An asymmetrically balanced psuedo-direct democracy, if ya’ll can keep it.

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          How does that interaction with moderation I wonder, like, if you moderate a place, you presumably need to be able to see what is going on in it, to see if something breaching whatever conduct standards you have has been posted. If you have a bunch of users that you can’t see, doesn’t that undermine your ability to do that?

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      For the record, I’m not transphobic, I’m not cisgender for sure… My kids is trans…

      I’m sure you know better than most people how crazy the trans activists can get.

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        Some of them do overreact… And quite loudly…
        It’s honestly relatable considering how persecuted trans people are right now (it’s now a crime to have anything not related to your assigned gender at birth, in the presence of a minor, in Ohio. So it’s basically illegal for JD Vance to go to Ohio because of the eyeliner and mascara.)

        But as relatable as it is, transphobia-phobia does quite a lot for furthering transphobia…

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          For context, I live in Scandinavia, where to my knowledge there’s very minimal oppression against sexual minorities, including trans. So possibly that is why the activism seems a tad crazy to me whereas it might very well be sane in some contexts.

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            People kill trans people here… They recently removed protections of trans inmates against rape in prison… They trying to classify it as a mental illness… There’s a loooot of crazy anti trans stuff going on.