Male here, you totally can. I’ve had events where I had multiple orgasms back to back with no refractory as well as events with full body orgasms that make all my muscles twitch.

I don’t know what the secret sauce is, I just try and enjoy the moment and I appreciate when I do get those rare extreme orgasms.

Estrogen did fucking wonders there Orgasms now are fucking mind blowing And long And I can sometimes do it more than once And the come down isn’t a cliff anymore, more of a gradual descent

When you’re approaching the final moments before orgasm, relax your gooch/bridge/perineum. You’ll feel your approach instantly slow, but if you achieve orgasm anyway, it’ll be MUCH stronger and longer. It sort of slows the build up down, and results in a bigger O. Should only add around 30 seconds of delay - we’re not trying to edge all day. Sometimes riding the edge feels great, so stay there as long as you can, but make sure you fall over, instead of losing the orgasm.

I used to wonder why my orgasms felt so different every time, but now they’re always really good. You might have to dance a few perineum flexes in, to get over the hill, but try to avoid many. 100% practice while masturbating while laying down. It’s super hard to have a fully relaxed perineum while thrusting. Also, try to make sure you’re really hard before relaxing your P muscles. Softer orgasms always are weaker for me.

Advanced users may find there is a muscle you can flex in kinda in opposition to flexing your P muscles, but I’m finding it hard to explain… So start with the basics.

male here, yes you can.

Well op, you very much can, but you gotta be willing to explore your boo-tay…

it really has nothing to do with whether you’re male or female but more with your state of mind and whether you can relax deeply enough. which many men can’t because they’re in a perpetual mental state of being tersed up and not relaxing. but that’s a social issue, not a biological one.

it’s in yer bum

I thought so too until I finally had my prostate properly dealt with. Mind blowing.

TIL: I often have a full body orgasm and not an anxiety attack.

Prostate orgasms are really good tho

PSA You don’t have to stick anything up your butt, you can massage it from the outside

you can get full body euphoria from scratching eczematized spots during a flare up.

Maybe try Estrogen? Works wonders for that.

Biological sex isn’t binary. There are various markers, most of which exist on a scale, and they correlate with each other and gender, weakly (height) or strongly (genitalia size). Sexual arousal by stimulation and over time is one of them.

These markers can change over time or with medical intervention generally known as gender-affirming therapy, which helps people who feel their gender and biological characteristics don’t correlate enough.

Still, we use labels like “biologicaly male” as a shorthand for “the sex markers considered decisive by me or my culture correlate(d) with the male gender (at birth)” and for legacy reasons (some legal forms and people still ask about binary biological sex but I’m looking forward to this being abolished). Yes, as an ex-Christian I used to have the outdated view of gender too and it took me a while to learn all this (and arguably, I still have things to learn) but thankfully, I’m open to becoming a more accepting person and there are great free resources online.

Your meme is a bit reductive but no big deal, it’s on par with the format and you’ve demonstrated openness to the nuance in the body text. Just trying to prevent people from correcting you rudely.

Edit: thinking about if “legacy” is a good descriptor of many people’s understandong of gender, turns out pretty good − much like IPv6 is the modern standard but “legacy” IPv4 is still in wide use. When someone asks “What’s your IP address?”, you can supply them with IPv6, which provides extra nuance but is not as supported as IPv4, which on the other hand cannot cover the needs of more than 4 billion people. Some people refuse to learn hexadecimal and will refuse to connect while others are stuck in legacy systems that will not allow them to implement IPv6 (although they may have some levels of compassion, and will be ready to communicate via tunnelling protocols). While IPv6 covers everything one expects from IPv4 and much more and is arguably inevitable, the legacy is so deeply rooted in how we talk that it’s really hard to replace and some ISPs try to indefinitely postpone the update. If you choose to bottle up and say your IPv4 address though, you might be missing out on genuine connection options if the other side also supports IPv6. (This analogy works better with languages which don’t differentiate between “sex” and “gender” in one word and asking for pronouns instead is uncommon and/or impractical, like Czech.)

(My Czech pronouns are on-ten/něho-toho/němu-tomu/něj-toho/×-ty/něm-tom/ním-tím btw and nobody has ever asked for them.)

As far as i understand male people can only experience it anally, but even that requires training. Because it is so difficult to achieve, it feels impossible.

You can give them. That’s the next best thing