I am definitely both - transfemme nonbinary person here. While I am transitioning to alleviate my immense dysphoria, I am still most comfortable with they/them pronouns - though will accept she/her if binary terms must be used.

I don’t feel like a binary trans girl but I need to be as far away from being seen as a boy as possible. Which oddly leaves me desperate to be seen as a girl, because it’s the least incorrect of the two socially standard genders.