• FreedomAdvocate
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    2 hours ago

    We’ve been told by the “progressives” that gender and sex are different things for years, so there should be no complaints if the Sex Discrimination Act is reverted to be about Sex and not “gender identity”.

  • Wataba@sh.itjust.works
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    5 hours ago

    Im not happy with Labour in the slightest.

    But please, we have to keep the bar from being dragged lower like the dumbasses over the Pacific did.

    Keep the bigots out. Keep the Harpy away from power.

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      4 hours ago

      "VOTE FOR ME, I WILL STRIKE DOWN THE SEX DISCRIMINATION ACT " is pretty on brand for the liberal party when you think about it.

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    9 hours ago

    I just don’t get the whole bathroom outrage thing. Look, I’m a bloke, so have NFI, but don’t women’s bathrooms have stalls? So who is looking? Who cares?

    Seriously, I wouldn’t care if somebody came into the gents and squatted over a urinal to pee.

    We are there to pee and/or poo. And get out as fast as possible. And I do, what, 98% of that in my own home anyways? Are people living in these public bathrooms 24x7 or something to be offended?

    I just don’t get it.

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      2 hours ago

      Sexual assaults are overwhelmingly carried out by males on females. Sex separated changing rooms/bathrooms/toilets drastically reduce the chance of a woman (or girl) being sexually assaulted.

      If you give males the ability to enter female changing rooms by saying they’re women, guess who will absolutely jump at that chance? Sex offenders and perverts.

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    23 hours ago

    No no no and fuck no. Fuck you taylor and your US cribbed bigotry

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    21 hours ago

    The court ruling sounds reasonable. Cis women might not be comfortable around trans women in female only spaces and saying “just get over it” isn’t really progressive. Denial that there is a genuine conflict of interest here is also counterproductive.

    We also need to recognize that the median voter is supportive of trans rights in general but tends not to be on specific issues. Trying to brute force it with government policy will likely have the opposite effect.

    The concern is if this ends up extending the ability to exclude trans women from women-only spaces to places which are “generally” gender segregated like bathrooms or team sports. If we end up without measures that protect the right of trans women to participate in society then that would be unacceptable.

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      9 hours ago

      The first paragraph here sounds unnervingly like an attempt to rationalise bigotry.

      People are uncomfortable with a lot of things and it’s usually their problem, not everyone elses.

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        6 hours ago

        It’s not bigotry for women to be uncomfortable around men in women only space. While I try my best to treat trans women as women, it’s not right to demand that women feel as comfortable around trans women as they do around cis women.

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          1 hour ago

          It’s irrational to fear people identified as male at birth whose testosterone is suppressed

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          I understand that you’re coming at this from a reasonable place, but this comment seems unusually hostile in a way your previous comments weren’t. I understand what you’re saying about the role of emotions, but we have to decide as a society that your emotions end where others’ rights begin, otherwise we could go down a very dark path. Racists could easily argue that banning indigenous ppl from white society is valid because they have their own indigenous communities.

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            38 minutes ago

            My tone was probably a bit harsh because I was getting frustrated with how dogmatic the “trans women are women” crowd is. Yes we should individually treat them as such, the law should also treat them as such, but drawing a legal line that they should be treated as such is a step too far.

            The needs to trans people should be accommodated. But the preferences of the more dogmatic trans people should not be respected at any cost, there has to be room for another’s comfort.

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          It’s not bigotry for women to be uncomfortable around men in women only space

          #AND THERE IT IS.

          Begone, bigot.

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            2 hours ago

            If you think this is bigotry then you don’t know what bigotry is.

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              1 hour ago

              Tenderizer literally called transwomen men. That’s pretty textbook bigotry. Not sure what you’re complaining about here, apart from the fact that Taleya called it what it was.

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                I did not. I was referred to cis men in that sentence, to explain why the term bigotry doesn’t apply to matters of privacy. Either way treating that as some kind of gotcha is so very expected.

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                  38 minutes ago

                  Oh dear. Please don’t try that martyred crap. There is a very clear line of conversational progression here and you literally said "It’s not bigotry for women to be uncomfortable around men in women only space. "

    • Courtney (she/her/they) @lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      18 hours ago

      Two sides of lemmy:

      Trans women are women

      And this kind of “I swear I’m not a republican but trans women aren’t real women so it’s different” opinion…

      TRANS WOMEN ARE WOMEN

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        2 hours ago

        What is a woman? Can you answer that without using circular definitions?

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          1 hour ago

          Hormones are a reasonable line to draw it on, as it is testosterone that makes men strong and which makes some men dangerous

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      CisWhite women might not be comfortable around trans black women in female only segregated spaces and saying ‘just get over it’ isn’t really progressive.

      Also, what “true conflict of interest” exists, other than people with prejudice feeling uncomfortable? Trans people are less likely to commit crime than cis people on the whole, with the main exception being more likely to be charged with crimes realted to sex work due to unemployment.

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        19 hours ago

        The racial analogue doesn’t fit. The existence of women-only spaces isn’t meant to discriminate against men because men are provided comparable alternatives, and they’re only discriminatory against trans women because they’re not provided an alternative.

        Trans women are women, but forcing women to emotionally react to trans women as if they were cis women is not a decision we can or should make for them. Feelings don’t care about your facts.

        I’ll try to come up with some conflicts of interest of the top of my head:

        • Women generally prefer restrooms to be gender segregated as a matter of privacy. Trans women who don’t have the same eldritch horrors of bodies likely don’t fall under the same privacy grouping. Some places have taken the step of making all restrooms unisex but women often don’t like it when that happens.
        • Lesbian romantic events exist for women to meet other women, and while generally we should treat trans women as women, in no universe can or should we impose that onto people’s sexuality.
        • Someone who’s had a traumatic experience with men and goes to a women-only space, only to discover that someone they’ve been talking to has been AMAB all along. It could be a healing or re-traumatizing experience, but it shouldn’t be imposed upon them as a matter of trans inclusion.
        • While trans women aren’t necessarily better at sports than cis women, when they are it’s reasonable to think their birth sex might play a part (whether right or wrong). That thought alone discourages participation in women’s sports.
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          The racial analogue fits because we’re another minority group that faces discrimination. Hope that helps.

          Seperate but equal, hmm, where have I heard that before?

          What do your hypothetical women’s emotions have to do with segregation?

          Trans women are women but we shouldn’t be allowed in women’s restrooms because we look different?

          Trans women are women but what about lesbians? Because we love different?

          Trans women are women but what if a women thinks I might have been a man once and freaks out about it? Because we are different?

          Why should these hypothetical women’s feelings excuse discriminating against and segregating an entire demographic of women?

          I know no woman who has said trans women in the bathroom make her uncomfortable. I’ve never even seen one.

          A lesbians dating preference may be for gold star, should we ban women who have slept with men from lesbian spaces? A lesbian can just choose to not fucking date trans women.

          The thought that someone may have been a man once. How horrible. What if she was raped by a woman? Should we ban women from women’s spaces to protect survivors?

          Do you have evidence for that claim? I promise there are enough factors discouraging participation in women’s sports, funding, historical norms, cultural expectations, direct sexism, existing power structures, training opportunities, school opportunities, etc, so forth.

          If i sign off as a transgender does it invalidate my feelings as a woman?

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            Trans women are women, but forcing women to emotionally react to trans women as if they were cis women is not a decision we can or should make for them. Feelings don’t care about your facts.

            Not to medicalise this this shit but you can make the exact same argument for anyone who’s encountering a high needs neurodivergent, or someone who requires assistive devices, or someone who is heavily scarred, etc. Because the issues here are “I don’t like how they deviate from what I think X people should look like” and “I am making preconceived potential behaviours up to be “frightened” of” aka Bias.

            And they can both go square back up the arse they came from. It’s not transwomen’s fault your parents never taught you humanity was diverse