

Pretty presumptuous to assume this is in any way toxic or mean.
I just wanted to tease him about his job, like when other friends ask me about my work week as a systems admin/engineer and then follow it up by making up absurd reasons for people to request admin rights.

















Yup. Kind of surprised how people seem to have jumped to the idea this is something toxic.
I’m not talking about anything seriously crossing boundaries, I just want some fodder for domain specific teasing. Maybe worded things a bit extreme.